What do I need- Baby Edition

When I was pregnant with Brody, I knew that I needed everything. I was starting fresh and had no clue about all of the bets baby gear and equipment and what I would use the most, I just knew I needed it all. I kept alot of big items from Brody.. High chair, pack n play, stroller and infant seat, jumper and bumbo seat. It just seems like this time with the 2nd baby I do not even know where to begin with what I actually need? That sounds silly, doesn't it? I mean I've done this before I should know, right? WRONG! I have all of these thoughts running through my head.

Do I really need a fancy double stroller? Will I even use it? Or should I just have my single stroller and let Brody ride and use a carrier for the baby? If you are a mother of two, give me your opinion.

Should I get a swing this time? I used a hand me down with Brody (I got rid of it) and he really didn't use it that much. Should I get a new one and give it a try for this baby?

I used the Chicco Key fit Infant Seat with Brody which I kept. I am wanting to get a new one to have one for both vehicles. I loved the Chicco but I have heard alot of good things about the Graco Snugride Infant Seat as well. Give me your opinion?

I used the Bjorn baby carrier with Brody ( I liked it but not sure if I kept it) but I have heard alot about the Moby wrap. Should I try it or is there a better one you would recommend?

Oh my goodness.. what else am I missing??? I used the pack n play by my bed with Brody when he was small but we have moved our bedroom and I am not sure if it will fit so I am thinking of getting a bassinet. Do you have a favorite you would recommend?

I do know some things I want and use for sure but there are just so many options and they come out with so many new and different things and I love baby gear that I just don't even know where to begin. I would love to hear about your favorite's and opinions!!